Sometimes it's better to light a flamethrower than curse the darkness

Well yeah. Still I have some sympathy for her, considering that some of her close family have even more difficulty with the "this is not all about you" idea. I haven't written about the circumstances of my grandpa's death but it was horrifically hard on my mom, her sisters, and their mom, and I feel like I'm just parachuting into the denouement of a tragedy, so I'm trying to cut them some slack.