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[162/365] end of an era
Jun
.
11th
,
2019
10:35 pm
cosmolinguist
I split up with James tonight. It was my decision but it's still sad and hard.
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2019-06-11 09:45 pm (UTC)
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sfred
Sending lots of love to you. x
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2019-06-11 09:53 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
<3
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2019-06-11 09:57 pm (UTC)
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nanila
I'm sorry about the sadness and difficulty. Glad it was the right thing for you.
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2019-06-11 10:28 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you.
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2019-06-11 09:59 pm (UTC)
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angelofthenorth
Sorry to hear that
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2019-06-11 10:29 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Yeah, I'm sorry to be saying it. :)
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2019-06-11 10:05 pm (UTC)
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worlds_of_smoke
I'm sorry. :( -offers hugs-
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Date:
2019-06-11 10:28 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Hugs are always good.
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2019-06-11 10:15 pm (UTC)
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tomakeanoffer
May the roads ahead be bright. <3 I hope you learned a lot and I hope you continue to grow.
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Date:
2019-06-11 10:29 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you. I definitely learned some important stuff.
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2019-06-11 10:32 pm (UTC)
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2019-06-11 10:37 pm (UTC)
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kaberett
<333
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2019-06-11 11:30 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
<3
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2019-06-12 12:33 am (UTC)
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steorra
:: offers tea ::
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:06 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Tea is a great idea, thank you. :)
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2019-06-12 03:02 am (UTC)
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lilysea
I'm sorry. :(
A decision that is the right decision for you can still be incredibly painful. :(
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:06 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
It can. Thanks.
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Date:
2019-06-12 05:40 am (UTC)
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meepettemu
Aww. Yeah- being the initiator doesn’t necessarily make it easy. I hope you have good enough space to heal a bit in the next few days
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:07 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you, I hope so too. :)
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2019-06-12 06:06 am (UTC)
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silveradept
Sorry about the necessity of the decision.
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:07 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Me too. Thanks.
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Date:
2019-06-12 06:14 am (UTC)
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ivy
I'm sorry for the difficulty, and hope for the best outcome possible for you. Breakups are rough.
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:08 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
They are. Thanks.
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2019-06-12 08:18 am (UTC)
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ludy
Gentle Thoughts
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2019-06-12 11:34 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you.
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2019-06-12 08:58 am (UTC)
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rmc28
*much love*
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2019-06-12 11:35 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
<3
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2019-06-12 10:38 am (UTC)
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sir_guinglain
*hugs* I'm sorry.
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Date:
2019-06-12 11:35 am (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
There is lots to be sad about but one of the things I'm happy about is that I got to meet you because of this relationship. :)
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Date:
2019-06-13 12:09 am (UTC)
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sir_guinglain
Thank you. I am glad of that too. :)
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Date:
2019-06-12 11:50 am (UTC)
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haggis
I am so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you both.
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2019-06-12 02:17 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
He probably needs the good thoughts much more than I do, tbh.
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Date:
2019-06-12 03:14 pm (UTC)
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haggis
*nods* I sent a similar message to him too. Break ups suck even if they are the right decision.
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2019-06-12 12:18 pm (UTC)
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finding_helena
I'm sorry... breakups are rough.
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Date:
2019-06-12 02:10 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
I hadn't had one in a very long time (and hadn't been the one doing the breaking up for even longer!) so I'd almost forgotten how rough they can be. Thanks.
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2019-06-12 01:08 pm (UTC)
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alithea
*hugs*
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2019-06-12 02:10 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
<3
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Date:
2019-06-12 02:19 pm (UTC)
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alatefeline
I am so sorry. May your journey onward go well.
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Date:
2019-06-12 09:14 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you so much.
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2019-06-12 03:17 pm (UTC)
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lorigami
peace to you <3
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2019-06-12 09:14 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
<3
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Date:
2019-06-12 05:50 pm (UTC)
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azurelunatic
I'm sorry.
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Date:
2019-06-12 09:14 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
It's for the best.
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Date:
2019-06-12 07:30 pm (UTC)
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barakta
Sorry to hear this, it's hard even when you're the decider. Thinking of you.
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Date:
2019-06-12 09:15 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
It is. I hadn't been the decider in a long time and that's its own kind of tough.
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2019-06-12 08:29 pm (UTC)
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momentsmusicaux
Sorry to hear that. I hope he's taken it reasonably well and there's no fallout.
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Date:
2019-06-12 09:16 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
I very much hope so too.
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Date:
2019-06-13 04:09 am (UTC)
From:
erratio
I'm sorry. Breakups really really suck in the short term.
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Date:
2019-06-15 02:08 pm (UTC)
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andrewducker
I'm sorry it wasn't working for you. I hope things get better.
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Date:
2019-06-15 09:08 pm (UTC)
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cosmolinguist
Thank you. I think they are getting better.
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