Plas Mawr
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This is probably the finest Elizabethan building in the UK.
The Front entrance with the arms of Elizabeth I:
( Here be pics! )
It's a soft grey day and it's been raining. Pleasant. Gentle. My father's wife was from Mexico, and she could not believe that I truly like the English (or the Scottish or the Irish) weather. She really thought I had been indoctrinated at some point (possibly by my father?). But I do like soft grey rainy days, especially since we've had a month of unrelenting sun (hello climate change) and we really need the rain.
Himself is listening to The Golden Enclaves by Naomi Novik and I am tickled by this, because I know Novik primarily as a superfan. Himself has heard of fanfiction, but that's as far as it goes - his internet and my internet are very different places. I want to give him some of astolat's fanfiction and see what he makes of that.
I have been to crossfit this evening. First time since 23 April and the class had both front squat and lunges. I am going to be so very sore tomorrow. But it's good to go back.
Yesterday I wrote that I had had a lazy do-nothing weekend; I had forgotten that I spent Sunday afternoon learning about Cloudflare configuration and setting it up for a site I manage. The site has been swamped by bots scraping contents for LLMs, and now it's all under control. I'm happy, my client is happy and I had a lovely time setting it all up. Sometimes I like working at weekends, it's quiet, no one expects me to answer emails and I can get on with things.
I had a few minutes to spare today, so I was trying to get caught up on recent K-pop releases. One that I found was "Nerdy," by ifeye, which came out on 8 April. I know nothing about this band, but I liked this song and I loved the video. The video is like a cross between i-dle's "I Do" and Weeekly's "Tag Me", "Zig Zag", and "After School" (which I think of as a trilogy), so it hit in a really enjoyable place for me. I hope you like it!
One of the books I'm currently reading is volume 3 of I'm in Love with the Villainess, a Japanese light novel by Inori. As I was reading this morning, I was struck by this quote from one of the characters:
They say the elderly tend to look back fondly on the past; I think it's because we envy our younger selves, who had yet to make the mistake we've made now. It's easier to wish to change your past than to acknowledge what you've done.
While I wouldn't classify myself as elderly, I can certainly relate to this idea — when I look back, I find myself not thinking that the past itself was inherently better, but instead that had I done something different — if I could have magically had then the knowledge I have now — that I might perhaps have been able to end up in a better place now.
We have had the bathroom remodelled. And I am so pissed off.
It looks great BUT the shower doesn't work properly. Starts off okay, works for about a minute and then the flow of water diminishes to a sad little trickle. I cannot wash my hair in the shower, I act like it's 1978 and wash it over the sink. What is the point of that? Irate Phonecalls to be made after the weekend
The bathroom is being redone because it's old & creaky & rather decrepit. But I've also been thinking of the future and growing older in this place. I've seen my father & Tom's father struggle, and I want to pre-empt some of that. We're going to be in this flat for the next 20 years, lets make it easy & convenient for ourselves.
Previously there was a big enormous bath which sat two people comfortably, a bidet and then a shower unit over the bath. Now the shower over the bath is being replaced with a walk-in shower, and the bath has been replaced by a very small bath. The bidet was neither ornamental nor useful, and has gone the way of the dinosaurs. (Loo is a separate room down the hallway - yes, it's an old house). There are a superabundance of green tiles and a general vibe of Victorian Gentleman's Convenience.
It was finished on Thursday and we had to observe a 24 hour period of 'lookee no touchee' to let the sealant dry. Friday evening - I had my inauguration shower. And it didn't bloody work. Gah
I was out for a pub meal with friends on Thursday and out with himself for a restaurant meal on the Friday. Both nights I hit a limit after about two hours, and just had to strike colours and get out.
The surroundings are loud, people are bawling at each other, and for a while I can tune out the noise and just focus on friends and the conversation close at hand. But there comes a point (2 hours & bit?) where I can't do it anymore. Noise that I could ignore is suddenly very close and immediate and in my face. The volume goes up to 11. The best way I've found to explain it is that noise which was outside (outside myself?) is now inside my head and I can't cope with it and I have to get the fuck out of dodge now. Parties etc I used to take myself off for a wee walk to decompress and then people would get worried and come after me and have talks about "are you alright?" Thursday & Friday I just called it a day.
I'm thinking about this and realising that it's no accident that I know some of my bestest my oldest friends from hiking.
This weekend now - It has been the quietest, the laziest, the most laidback and do-nothing weekend in all the world. I haven't even had a to-do list. I have slept well.
Like many 1980s kids, I was introduced to bonsai trees through The Karate Kid. In the years since, I've intermittently entertained the idea of trying to train a bonsai tree — and maybe someday I'll get around to it. In the meantime, though, I enjoyed reading this article from NPR celebrating the 400th birthday of the Yamaki Pine, a bonsai tree which survived the atomic blast at Hiroshima and then was gifted to the United States by the government of Japan in 1976. I was particularly interested to discover that one of the bonsai experts/enthusiasts featured in the article was from New Orleans, and that one of his trees which was photographed for the article was a bald cypress, which is a type of tree that I'd never seen as a bonsai before.
Reading. ( Bridget Collins, Feather (lalaietha), Jenny Lawson )
Listening. More Hidden Almanac, including First Appearance of Pastor Drom; slightly grumpy with myself for dozing through a chunk of it (to a greater extent than I realised; I did get snippets, but missed more than was apparent at the time) and am steeling myself to relisten.
Cooking. More from East: aubergine katsu curry with pickled radish (meh on my part, but A liked it), roasted carrots and cabbage with gochujang (meh on A's part, but I liked it enough to nibble at it between meals even though I'm unlikely to make it again), asparagus and mangetout with chilli peanut crumb (not actually worth spending in-season asparagus on outside the Cook Everything In This Book project, but pleasing given that context).
Eating. WILD ASPARAGUS is I think the most exciting thing I have eaten this week.
I have been Disappointed by Wagamama. Much less disappointingly, I have been plied with blueberries and yoghurt. Finished the hazel-bay-rye-and-rhubarb cake; have made some progress on the birthday cake I got sent home with.
Exploring. I am currently Away From Home. There are postbox toppers. One of them is Many Round Hedgehogs; another is Sea Creatures including Mollusc. I am sort of curious about who else I might spot in the area.
Making & mending.
Growing. ... I did not get cucumbers started. I did get some more squash into the ground (well, raised beds), and planted out a bunch of tomatoes, and at least two kinds of pea are now flowering, and I will be mildly resentful if I get home and discover all the strawberries have been eaten.
Did I mention that my established rocket remains established? I was a little concerned that I'd buried it under too much manure, and then it showed up in the next bed over.
Observing. BABY WOODPECKER.
Today LinusBoman talks about font theft. Back in the 1990s I worked in a desktop publishing service bureau. Font foundries were still using a pricing model based on industrial customers with several blocks worth of printing presses and thousands of books. Font piracy was so widespread as to be fundamental. Good times—Linus brings it all back with an excellent news hook: how the unavoidable you wouldn’t steal a car message that scolded at the start of every VHS or DVD used a pirated font. Pro captions, silent title cards subdivide the video into eight sections.
Watch on YouTube
( or stream 21 minutes here )
Linus Boman is so my type of design nerd. More about him at TimesNewBoman.com
( stream six minutes of amazing here )
Audio is instrumental music. I invite you to write image descriptions; here are the first three:
Watch Kevin on all the platforms: https://lnk.bio/kevinbparry/
Anthony Howe of HoweARTdotNET sculpts stainless steel into "kinetic sculpture," installed outside and set in motion by the wind. Most comprise a circular metal structure atop a 10 to 20 feet curved column. The circle supports four to eight rings that rotate perpendicular to the circle. Each of these rings is decorated with assorted shapes, including discs, commas, sticks, flaps, and blades. The rings are staggered so that the motion seems infinitely various; the shiny stainless steel creates cascading light and sparkles as it moves, along with the illusion of interlocking gears moving forward and backward at the same time.
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Many static pictures to admire at https://www.howeart.net
After the rest of the party are kidnapped by gnolls the wizard thinks
carefully about where he should have lunch.
Original
is here on Pixelfed.scot.