Eastercon 2025

Apr. 23rd, 2025 02:37 pm
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Somewhat on a whim, I booked myself to go to Eastercon last weekend. We would have both gone but B. had accidentally booked a trip to Texas to study turtles flipping themselves from their backs to their fronts, so I went alone.

It is almost a decade since we went to Eastercon and I'm not sure why. The last one we attended was in Manchester and I think we were slightly put off by the actual difficulty of getting to help out in anyway - B. never got involved at all. After some effort I ran a Lego Rover session in a tiny cramped room but my experience was that every time I contacted the con comm I was dealing with a different person and ultimately I felt somewhat unwanted. However all the excitement over Worldcon in Glasgow got me thinking that we should give it another try.

The quality of the panels was generally high, a lot better than the first Eastercon I attended where panels were full of people who seemed rather unsure why they were there. I missed both the AI panel and an AI talk - probably just as well as these were the programme items most likely to annoy, but enjoyed panels on writing landscape and world-building. There was a fun Doctor Who panel trying to tease apart the strengths and weaknesses of the current iteration, a fascinating Arthurian panel (albeit one where the Emeritus Professor of Medieval History appeared to have little to say for himself - fortunately the rest of the panel had plenty of interesting thoughts), and the obligatory fanfic panel which talked around the idea of fanfic as a community exercise. Gender representation was good, but the con itself remains predominantly middle-aged (going on elderly), middle-class and white. I also attended the Hay Lecture on genomics and the BSFA Lecture on Diversity in Lord of the Rings (which made some good points, but also a few which were a bit "OK, yes, if you squint really hard"). I had fun at the Ceilidh which was full of confused Scots being confronted with dances they had never encountered before.

The Dealers' Room was oddly disappointing. I was hoping to buy exciting tat and in the end only came away with a dinosaur dice holder - which is very nice, but I'd been expecting more in the way of T-Shirts and jewellery than I found. While waiting for the bus from the ferry to the hotel, I had met a young man from Liverpool University Library who was running a display on the digitisation of their SF collection. I dropped by the stall. It was a bit difficult to appreciate the digitisation - he had iPads on which you could browse the collection, but it wasn't really a circumstance conducive to such browsing. He said most people wanted to talk to him about the collection itself, or their collection, and weren't so interested in the digital bit - but he acknowledged that it was all useful. The archive is here, if you are interested.

There was also a programme of walks which I gathered was fairly new. On the Friday morning before the con had started proper there was a very well-attended walk to Belfast's public library and the Linen Hall (also a Library). The Saturday morning walk started at 7am and was to take two hours ending with breakfast. Rain was forecast so I don't think the organisers were terribly surprised when only two of us showed up. One organiser then cried off since she had a cold. The rain wasn't actually that bad and we had a pleasant walk up the Lagan, via an unplanned detour since we were ahead of time, and culminating in bacon and waffles (in my case) at a Lock keeper's cottage turned cafe. On Sunday morning a small entirely female group (apart from the guide), walked the other way along the Lagan, towards the docks viewing various sculptures and Game of Thrones themed stained glass windows until we reached HMS Caroline. I could only get the hotel for four nights, so had a ferry to catch on Monday morning as a result of which I missed the final walk.

Photos, mostly of the walks, under the cut )

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Apr. 22nd, 2025 11:00 pm
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There's a friending meme going on over here, so if that's your bag...well, you know what to do??

(I left a comment that in no way describes what this journal is actually like, Go Team Me.)

Honestly I should probably just link people at my mastodon account, like, "GOOD LUCK!"

This is my account there, for what it's worth. (GOOD LUCK!)
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I just can't believe what everyone seems to think is appropriate. If someone gets hurt: isn't that supposed to mean something?

I feel like people are trying to psychologically train me to deal with people shooting wherever, whenever, actual guns, all around me, and my job is just "remain calm"... like... what?

Excuse me, but no. I'm not interested in that, I'm not interested in your psychological cruelties, which MANY PEOPLE are currently participating in.

Trauma is real, and justice is supposed to be. The difference between having justice versus not, can make a difference in how comfortable someone is with something.

I can understand this idea of not banning words, not banning books.. the idea is greatly that.. it's information, it's got to be valuable.. that's what I see..

but you think about the construct of language itself. I don't think there's a language without words, right? Well, words are a SET. There's only so many of them, and languages distinguish each other based on sets of words. One language doesn't have the same combinations of sounds to make words as another.

What do you do with this, when you are approaching the topic of fascism? fascism is about book burning, which I call, a metaphor for word banning. It is like the idea that being creative with language and or sounds is a bad thing.

But it's not just creativity, and there's another direction that I keep seeing happening.. this idea where something bad happens to someone, and psychological strength is viewed as being reminded of something horrible, and just dealing with it.

Is that really necessary? You are telling me, that it is necessary for me to have crimes committed against me, and without justice, just keep being reminded of how horrible it was? How is that not hell, not war. Like bullets flying by you. The bullet didn't hit you, so you weren't hurt. But SOMEONE JUST SHOT AT YOU. Aren't you hurt that someone hates you enough that they shot at you? That's psychologically damning.

There are more ways to hurt someone than to physically put your hands on them. You can build some psychological monsters that think nothing of sounds at all, all you want, but I'm not interested.

This has got to stop. I'm just done with people. There's no way to have a decent conversation anymore. Creativity for me, is often very multilingual. No one cares, no one understands. I quit. I try to have fun with convos, and I can't do it anymore.

Costume Bracket: Round 3, Post 16

Apr. 22nd, 2025 06:49 pm
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Two Doctor Who companion outfits for your delectation and delight! Outfits selected by a mixture of ones I, personally, like; lists on the internet; and a certain random element.


Outfits below the Cut )

Vote for your favourite of these costumes. Use whatever criteria you please - most practical, most outrageously spacey, most of its decade!

Voting will remain open for at least a week, possibly longer!

Costume Bracket Masterlist

Images are a mixture of my own screencaps, screencaps from Lost in Time Graphics, PCJ's Whoniverse Gallery, and random Google searches.

Retirement T-8 and counting

Apr. 22nd, 2025 09:13 am
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Medicare Advantage (through Kaiser) is all set up. I've paid my first 3 months of Medicare B through the website, since they can't automatically deduct it from my retirement benefits until they're actually giving me retirement benefits. (Still waiting on that one.)

Sent out my retirement announcement (and celebration invite) at work. I've promised people jars of Heather's Retirement Marmalade as door prizes for as long as they last. (I made 2 dozen.)

Other than the SSA thing, all that's left is:
* last-day stuff at the job (turn in computer/badge, exit interview)
* convert 401K to IRA and select investment strategy (the exact details of which may depend on market details)

Oh, and close my last two investigations. One is in final review, the other is pending completion of some corrections.

(My "retirement checklist" also has some other items on it that aren't directly retirement related but it seemed useful to record them as official to-do items.)

Turned upside down with anxiety

Apr. 22nd, 2025 08:55 am
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[personal profile] hunningham

I'm jangling frantic with all the things I should be doing and have not done (paid work & clients needing attention, upcoming elections & activism, looking after father-in-law, exercise). I've just had a four day weekend where I feel that I have not managed to do one single thing that I should have done, and I'm being pulled in many different directions with this, this, this.

Also I've just realised that I have entirely forgotten to write & send out the minutes for the last committee meeting and it should have been done a week ago. Gah.

I have been reading Fire Weather : A True Story from a Hotter World by John Vaillant and Doppelganger by Naomi Klein and both books, in their separate ways, talk about climate change, & offer scant optimism for the future.

And I just shutdown and start playing endless mindless puzzle games on my ipad.

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Apr. 21st, 2025 07:52 pm
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Most recently, the common chest problem that I'm dealing with, is a tightness in my chest, and I can easily call it stress. It sucks, and has some horrible downsides. My short bursts of chest pains........ eerrrr it's difficult to explain. I'm having impulse problems. It is stress. It's not like the short bursts of chest pains that I talk about sometimes. Stress is different from the chest pains.. it's still uncomfortable, you could kind of call it painful, but it's a light pain.. it's scary, and annoying... it is probably not as scary as the short bursts of chest pains... those... are more intense. They are sharper. Stress is not sharp, it's not even really dull.. closer to dull than sharp, but it's stress. It's a tightness in my chest, and I would say, it's related to the impulses.

Crafting

Apr. 21st, 2025 03:04 pm
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Hey all, if you'd like to join the crafting hangout, it is tonight from 6-8pm ET!
 
Video encouraged but not required!
 
Topic: Crafting Hangout
Time: Mondays 6:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
 
Join Zoom Meeting
 
Meeting ID: 973 2674 2763

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  1. Who was your first crush?

    Real person: It was a boy named Colin, in the fifth grade. I would have been ten years old. I can't remember anything about him except he had blue eyes and I could make him laugh until he cried.

    Fictional TV character: Jean-Luc Picard.

    Fictional literary character: Sherlock Holmes.

  2. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

    I have extrovert energy, but I'm an introvert and I very much need my alone time.

  3. What is your favorite non-sexual thing you like to do with the love of your life?

    I can't think of a particular favourite. I just enjoy his company.

  4. What is one quirky habit your partner does that either annoys you or makes you grin?

    This does both: throwing his pants at the laundry basket and missing. Like, every single day.

  5. Do you believe in monogamous relationships?

    It works for me. I do understand they're not for everyone.

Good weekend

Apr. 21st, 2025 10:30 am
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Saturday was a working day with employees here working. It was hot hot hot and sunny. There was a breeze but it only helped so much.

We got half of the required blueberries pulled. Those blueberries are the wrong variety that the nursery sent us and they are mixed into a block that is called the "early riskies". Those are early producing blueberries that taste good. The wrong plants are not early, they are mid to late season and they are mediocre taste. So we got ahold of the nursery and let them know and they are sending replacements this week. But the 4 year old plants need to be pulled out. I put one worker on the tractor (Kubota 7040 orchard tractor. It's tiny but mighty) and I was on the ground. I used a tire strap loop, wrapped around the base of the plant and had him pull the tractor forward, around half of the time, it tightened up and caught on the middle of the bush and pulled it out. I figured out it helped to jam a shovel into the ground a couple of times to loosen the plant up. If it still slipped, I would tighten the strap as tight as possible and cinch it with fencing wire that I had in the back of my truck. that got almost all of the plants. There were a few that still slipped, so those got more shovel stabbing of roots. So one row is down, around 25 plants.

The other employee was doing the thankless job of pulling the dead johnsongrass out of the spartan blueberry rows, so we can get sprays and woodchips down better, so after lunch I switched her to pruning blackberries. We're pretty sure only one variety of blackberries survived the winter, they aren't winter hardy to our temperatures generally, so we lose half of the crop pretty regularly. The problem is that they're the thornless varieties, much less hardy than thorned ones. But I don't know that people will want to pick the thorned ones. Something to work on. There's training the thornless ones onto a folding trellis and stuff, not sure we have the capacity to get it done. I swapped the guy working with me to pulling more johnsongrass and I went and starting moving woodchips.

We are mulching all of the raspberries with woodchips this year, changing it up from straw since the chips are easier. I got the raspberries on this side of the road all mulched this week and now I need to do the spartan blueberries and the raspberries across the road. I got a couple loads dumped that afternoon and then stopped to send the employees off at 4pm, quick chat about schedules for the week and checked the radar. Big storm blob approached, so I wanted to get one more load done. Ran over with the tractor, got it loaded, the sky started sprinking as I headed across the road. Got the load dumped, no problem. As I headed back to the house, I could see the mountains in the distance start to disappear. That's generally bad if you want to stay dry. I crossed the road, parked the tractor, closed my truck bed cover and sprinted to the house because the skies opened up. It was a half hour thunderstorm complete with the power going out briefly.

Everything was soggy after that, so I gave up on working and showered and got ready for the support group. It was decent. Small group and at the beginning the facilitator had made a comment about how the group had been quite large in it's first session in January, but gotten smaller since then, and around halfway through, someone came in late and then I understood why. The person who came in was one of those people who have something to say about everything else other people are talking about and also it was all about her. The facilitator did her best, but I get why a lot of people would have bailed. It was a decent chat though and I'm glad I went. I also got to see the downtown, which I haven't been down there in ages. It looked like there were some decent restaurants and stuff in the area, so I'll have to go and explore.

Yesterday was a lazy day. Dad and I chatted about schedules and plans and since everything was still wet, we couldn't do a ton of stuff. Oh terrible. I got my contribution to easter dinner baked (blueberry fruit bars) and then started working on the rototiller. It's a Howard, which is pretty indestructible which is good because we have a lot of rocks. We take the center tines off to renovate the strawberries and when I want to use it to prep a field, I need to put tines back on. It's a pain. But I like the rototiller for smaller plots. The potatoes still haven't arrived which is baffling, the shipping notice says they haven't given it to USPS yet. So it's somewhere. I'll get the rototilling done today and plant some peas.

Dad and I did a quick scouting and then headed up to the family party. It was a little quieter than some years, but it was a nice time. My cousin made some roasted lamb that was incredible. Lots of mashed potatoes. Yum. I caught up with family and then wandered out to the porch in my socks to watch the volleyball game. After 20 minutes or so, my uncle called me out and said if I was laughing, I should put my mouth where my money is. So I hopped down in my socks and we played valleyball until it got dark. Incredible fun. Ate some more dessert and then headed home and right to bed.

I ran for groceries this morning and also got a library card! Now I've got yogurt on the stove and then rototilling and crafting on the agenda for the rest of the day. Plus laundry.

Photo cross-post

Apr. 21st, 2025 09:56 am
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In the future all zoo trips will look like this.
Original is here on Pixelfed.scot.

When my snooker wishes work

Apr. 21st, 2025 11:04 am
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[personal profile] zimena
Me, on this DW a few days ago:

Players I want OUT, as soon as possible:
Neil Robertson, Luca Brecel, Ali Carter.
From the tactical point of view, I also want Kyren Wilson and John Higgins out,
but it's not a fierce desire for it to happen as soon as possible.



The first two days of the World Championship gave these results among others:

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Kyren Wilson 9 - 10 Lei Peifan 🇨🇳
🇦🇺 Neil Robertson 8 - 10 Chris Wakelin 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Do I get to make another, more important wish, too? I mean, seeing as these ones worked surprisingly well?

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Mark Selby to lift his 5th World Championship trophy on May 5th. Please.

5 Wants + Shadow work metacognition

Apr. 20th, 2025 06:58 pm
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[personal profile] flamingsword
5 Wants + underlying Unmet Needs: Read more... )


In shadow work news, either I’m really good at sliding sideways around things that make me uncomfortable, or the people who wrote the Shadow work prompts I’ve been using are way too fucking neurotypical for the way they frame things to be helpful for me. Like, the last prompts implied that I should rate my loved ones on a hierarchy? Which does make me uncomfortable, but for autism-type “my brain doesn’t do that” reasons and not “this is a part of yourself that your past has taught you to disavow” type reasons. I may need to go get a library card and check out some print media on the subject, or just start doing a bunch more thinking about the questions and figuring out whether they can even be helpful or if I need to rewrite them the way I rewrote so much of the cisheteropatriarchy out of the CBT workbook prompts here.

General greetings!

Apr. 20th, 2025 07:48 pm
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Not a bad day at all. I was planning on taking the entire weekend off from Origami, but that didn't happen, no big deal, fun times, and presents for others!

Had a great day, standard activities plus seeing some friends.

I have a new "follower" so I'll say hi.

This journal can be heavily informative, focusing especially on HS care and status, as well as general multilingualism.

I do what I can to keep some lighting around, but it can be daunting here.

Enjoy!

良い休日を!

Illness and wrecking this journal

Apr. 20th, 2025 05:16 pm
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I bought a Wreck This Journal at Half-Price Books on Monday because I am trying to find and dig in to the places that are uncomfortable this year, and I figure this might go along with the Shadow work? We’ll see. So far I’m mostly just having a small amount of fun … despite the intestinal wackness.

Bc I’m also sick today. Stepdad’s hour in the bathroom the other day seems to have been a picked up stomach bug from somewhere, and ofc he’s given it to Mom and I. It’s gross, but not actually much more painful or tired than is normal for me. I canceled today’s plans and need to text some folks about stocking up on ginger tea and electrolytes just in case I was contagious yesterday. Most intestinal things are fairly short of incubation period - even if they have a long period of contagion - so everyone I saw before Friday should be safe. But that still leaves a fair few people I’ve seen.

I am not best pleased by this, but it could be much worse, I suppose. I could have been contagious the first couple days here and gotten immune compromised folx sick. That would suuuuuuck.

Hope y’all are having a less crappy day than me, and that you get a Wreck This Journal if you are a perfectionist or afraid of annotating your books, your possessions, or your life. ✌️

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Apr. 20th, 2025 05:27 pm
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Busy day at my parents' house today. I tried a new recipe on them and it was a hit.I also made them ham, sauteed asparagus and corn. I always try to give them lots of veggies.

I did a lot of little jobs (changing light bulbs, cleaning, packing up things they want to donate, etc.) and then I also cut down 4 biggish trash trees, chopped them up, and put them in the green waste bin.





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