the cosmolinguist ([personal profile] cosmolinguist) wrote2025-06-18 07:27 pm
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PIP assessment

I knew it'd be awful but the PIP assessment was really awful.

I've mostly had nice assessors in the past, which helps as much as anything can. But this one wasn't doing a good job of hiding her glee at her petty power over me. Mean-girl vibes.

When we told V we were having coffee and cake afterward, they expressed their approval and said they'd hoped I would be. I said I learned this from them the first time I had one of these fucking assessments and they went along with me: they had to buy me the cake after that because I was too poor to do it myself, so I remember it.

V replied: "They will not be allowed to take away our joy." Damn right.

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[personal profile] angelofthenorth 2025-06-18 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Commiserations. I feel like the good assessors have all gone
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[personal profile] used_songs 2025-06-18 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. I hate when people are like that, but I'm glad she couldn't steal your joy.
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[personal profile] forests_of_fire 2025-06-18 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with someone that petty and small.
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[personal profile] mst3kforall 2025-06-18 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry the PIP and its assessor were miserable:-( They will not be allowed to take your joy! (Go, V!)
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[personal profile] haggis 2025-06-18 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry, the system is abusive and therefore attracts people who want to have petty power over others.
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[personal profile] otter 2025-06-18 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Small joys are resistance. I'm sorry it was so awful
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[personal profile] barakta 2025-06-18 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, sorry she was mean and nasty, that makes a hideous process SO much worse.

Agree about how they can't steal your joy and we can keep joy in the face of fuckery.
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[personal profile] gremdark 2025-06-19 08:32 am (UTC)(link)
I’m glad you’re keeping your joy. Here’s to a better tomorrow.
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[personal profile] diffrentcolours 2025-06-19 09:45 am (UTC)(link)

It was good cake too! The minute I saw blueberry cake I felt like you were being rewarded for not doing a murder.

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[personal profile] cosmicjellyfish 2025-06-19 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
I’m sorry the system is so shit (and that you got the kind of assessor who sets out to make the whole ordeal even shittier). But glad you had the joy of good cake and coffee afterwards!
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[personal profile] silveradept 2025-06-19 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Hooray for treating yourself after having to deal with a petty tyrant, probably hired into the position specifically for their desire to be a petty tyrant.

Here's hoping the assessment means you get everything you're supposed to and no further fighting DWP.
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[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2025-06-21 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)

Now I want a button that says “cake is the best revenge”