the cosmolinguist ([personal profile] cosmolinguist) wrote2025-06-16 10:05 pm

Part 2 of Things About My Voice

The way my voice now resonates in my body feels better to me than I ever thought it could.

I was thinking of this this morning because I talked with a fellow trans dude about singing over the weekend; him dealing with changes to his range made me ponder how I've been kinda avoiding trying to find what my singing might be like?

I know voice training and documenting changes, in speaking and singing, is a Thing for a lot of trans people but the notion gave me big anxiety so I've stayed away from it.

Today I am carefully singing along with the radio (in the sense that I am doing it with care, rather than just finding myself doing so while I am working or whatever) and I don't really care how I sound but I love how it feels.

I said this on fedi and was charmed to have one of my dadliest friends (who we call Other Erik because he's another Erik) say

I hope you never lose that joy! For my part, I still love the feeling and I’ve had a mature low “adult” voice for over 30 years. I find myself humming low-range tunes to myself rather frequently just for the feeling of it in my chest.

It's nice to know it can stay fun for that long!

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[personal profile] otter 2025-06-16 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
<3
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[personal profile] sfred 2025-06-17 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Yes!
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[personal profile] silveradept 2025-06-18 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, hooray! Having something that sounds nice to you is an affirming feeling.